Relationship

What phase in a relationship are you in?

Phase One: Looking for a Partner.

Phase Two: In a relationship.

Phase Three: Recovering from a relationship.

Phase One: Looking for a Partner

Here are two key elements that I have put together after much research about what you should be paying attention to when looking for a partner.

 

Trust and Communication

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  3. Dating Advice Updates for the Modern World

  4. Find Your Perfect Partner With These Strategies

  5. 6 Myths That Can Prevent You From Finding Love

  6. Inviting Love Into Your Life

  7. What to Look For in a Soul Mate

  8. Make Love Work the Second Time Around

  9. 4 Important Warning Signs That You're Not Ready to Date

  10. Discover the New Dating Rules Hidden in Plain Sight

 

Here are some books to read:

 

The Natural: How to effortlessly attract the women you want - Richard La Ruina

One of the world’s top pick-up artists, Richard La Ruina went from having no women to being a true master of seduction. Now he shows you how to do the same. So move over Mystery, and tell Neil Strauss that The Rules of the Game are about to be rewritten. Every element of the winning pickup is right here, from discovering confidence to exuding charm, learning conversation starters to mastering body language, to much more. And as you move from daydreaming to flirtation to passion to romance to love, The Natural will show you how it’s done.

 

Models: Attract Women Through Honesty - by Mark Manson

Models is the first book ever written on seduction as an emotional process rather than a logical one, a process of connecting with women rather than impressing them. It's the most mature and honest guide on how a man can attract women without faking behavior, lying, and emulating others. A game-changer.

 

Modern Romance - Aziz Ansari

At some point, every one of us embarks on a journey to find love. We meet people, date, and get into and out of relationships, all with the hope of finding someone with whom we share a deep connection. This seems standard now, but it’s wildly different from what people did even just decades ago. Single people today have more romantic options than at any point in human history. With technology, our abilities to connect with and sort through these options are staggering. So why are so many people frustrated?

Workshops you need to attend:

  • How to attract women (Seek Self Improvement) - Coming soon if you would like to be on our waiting list to be notified please click here.

Phase Two: In a relationship

 

Now that you have found love let's look deeper into how to keep that love. Here are some big key pointers that all successful long-lasting relationships have in common.

 

  • Be curious, not critical

  • Be careful, not crushing

  • Ask, don’t assume

  • Connect, before you correct

 

Top 15 Articles:

  1. 5 Steps to Building a Strong Relationship

  2. What a Healthy Partner Relationship Looks Like

  3. Habits of Highly Successful Couples

  4. How to Solve Trust Issues in a Relationship

  5. Keeping it Cool: 8 Strategies to Respond to Someone Who's Angry

  6. A Couple's Guide To Working Towards Goals with Your Spouse

  7. Strengthen Your Relationship by Nurturing Vulnerability

  8. Ask Yourself These Important Questions Before Getting Married

  9. Enhance Your Relationship: 7 Strategies to Show Love for Your Partner

  10. 5 Steps to More Fulfilling Relationships

  11. Increasing Emotional Intimacy in Your Relationships

  12. Create More Companionship in Your Marriage in One Month or Less

  13. 8 Things That Happy Couples Do

  14. How to Fight Fairly in Relationships

  15. 6 Secrets for a Happy Marriage]

Affirmations Reflections:

  • Having an open and honest dialogue with myself allows me to communicate with my partner

  • I am Above Jealousy

  • I am open to feedback from my spouse

  • I share Power in my relationship

  • I support my spouse in the pursuit of their dreams

Action Guides:

  • How to be more open and honest about your feeling

  • How to communicate during challenging times with your partner

 

Books to Read:

 

The Five Love Languages - Gary Chapman

Falling in love is easy. Staying in love—that’s the challenge. How can you keep your relationship fresh and growing amid the demands, conflicts, and just plain boredom of everyday life?

In the #1 New York Times international bestseller The 5 Love Languages, you’ll discover the secret that has transformed millions of relationships worldwide. Whether your relationship is flourishing or failing, Dr. Gary Chapman’s proven approach to showing and receiving love will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your partner—starting today.

The 5 Love Languages is as practical as it is insightful. Updated to reflect the complexities of relationships today, this new edition reveals intrinsic truths and applies relevant, actionable wisdom in ways that work.

 

7 Principles That Make Marriage Work - by John Gottman

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work has revolutionized the way we understand, repair, and strengthen marriages. John Gottman’s unprecedented study of couples over a period of years has allowed him to observe the habits that can make—and break—a marriage. Here is the culmination of that work: the seven principles that guide couples on a path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship.

 

Straightforward yet profound, these principles teach partners new approaches for resolving conflicts, creating new common ground, and achieving greater levels of intimacy. Gottman offers strategies and resources to help couples collaborate more effectively to resolve any problem, whether dealing with issues related to sex, money, religion, work, family, or anything else.

 

Getting The Love You Want - by Harville Hendrix

Originally published in 1988, Getting the Love You Want has helped millions of couples attain more loving, supportive, and deeply satisfying relationships. The 20th-anniversary edition contains extensive revisions to this groundbreaking book, with a new chapter, new exercises, and a foreword detailing Dr. Hendrix’s updated philosophy for eliminating all negativity from couples’ daily interactions, allowing readers of the 2008 edition to benefit from his ongoing discoveries during his last two decades of work.

Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., in partnership with his wife, Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD., originated Imago Relationship Therapy, a unique healing process for couples, prospective couples, and parents. Together they have more than thirty years’ experience as educators and therapists and their work has been translated into more than 50 languages, with Imago practiced by two thousand therapists worldwide. Harville and Helen have six children and live in New York and New Mexico.

Workshops you need to attend:

  • How to stay in love (Seek Self Improvement) - Coming soon if you would like to be on our waiting list to be notified please click here.

Phase Three: Recovering from a relationship

 

Here are some key components that will help you recover from a breakup.

 

  • Give yourself time to grieve

  • Process the good, bad, and the ugly of that relationship

  • Talk about it - speak to family or close friends. You can even speak to a life coach(insert wink).

  • Focus on you - find hobbies you can take up or continue your education.

 

Top 10 Articles:

  1. Spare Your Kids the Heartache: How to Get Along After Divorce

  2. What to Do - And What to Avoid - After a Devastating Breakup

  3. How to Build the Courage to Leave an Abusive Partner

  4. Top 10 Ways to Move on in Your Love Life

  5. Picking Up the Pieces After Divorce

  6. Practical Breakup Advice for Men

  7. When Your Partner Says "It's Over": 7 Ways to Cope With Break-Ups

  8. Getting Through Your Break-Up

  9. Does Your Ex Deserve Another Chance?

  10. 12 Healthy Ways to Deal with Loneliness After a Breakup

 

Affirmations Reflections:

  • I can live alone without feeling lonely.

  • I overcome my divorce with grace.